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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests. Ji Sang Yeol!
(Ji Sang Yeol, the hilarious entertainer)
Seol Hyun and Min A of AOA!
(Seol Hyun and Min A of AOA)
Announcer Kim So Young.
(Kim So Young hasn't been on KBS before.)
Park Ji Woo, the dance sport dancer.
(Park Ji Woo, the dance sport dancer)
Seol Hyun and Min A haven't been here for a while...
- as members of AOA. - It's been a while.
- It's been a while. - It's been a long time.
Singers come here only when they released a new song.
You're here to promote your new album, right?
- No, we're not. - That's not true.
- They were invited a year ago, - Okay.
and their new song came out recently by chance.
- That's right. - Dong Yeob always tries to...
make our female guests look nice.
Why don't you do it for me once in a while?
That requires a lot of effort.
(He refused immediately.)
(AOA's new song that will take over music charts this summer)
("Bingle Bangle" by AOA)
(Shake your hips)
(Bingle, bangle)
(Bang, bang)
(Dancing)
(Bingle, bangle, bang, bang)
(They've won everyone's heart.)
Regardless of his age,
- Sang Yeol has many siblings. - That's right.
So his niece got married.
- She even had a baby. - That's right.
My niece's baby is three years old.
- My goodness. - One day, my eldest brother...
called me to tell me that his daughter had a baby.
Yeong Ja, what's the matter? How about a cupping treatment?
It's not like that.
My niece gave birth to a baby not long ago too.
- I see. - Your niece?
Her baby eats just like I do.
In a large... What was it called? A basin?
- A basin. - Her baby sits in a basin...
- In a basin? - and eats in there.
In a basin?
My niece is just like me.
(The baby eats a lot just like Yeong Ja.)
Married couples have many worries.
Do you have any worries about your husband?
I have no worries, but I think my husband might.
- Oh Sang Jin has worries? - Yes.
It's been hard for him since he married me.
Can you elaborate it?
- What is it? - Sang Jin cooks well...
- as he lived alone for long. - He cooks well?
I guess that can be...
- He cooks for me often. - Right.
He also cleans the house.
- She's so lucky. - I feel like he's taking better...
care of me than my mom did.
You can improve your skills over time. Aren't I right?
I can't seem to improve.
A lot of married couples come here...
to talk about their issues in marriage.
Is there any dance that could help to improve the relationship?
Put your left hand on my shoulder. Like this.
Step backward and back with your right foot,
and step forward and back with your left foot.
- Just remember that. Ready. Go. - Okay.
- Step, step, cha-cha-cha. - It looks easy.
- Step, step, cha-cha-cha. - She's doing well.
- It's easy. - One more time.
Step, step. Can you turn around? And step.
Step. Cha-cha-cha.
Sang Yeol, get up.
(She wants to try it.)
Get up. We'll show people the difference.
Not all couples are like them. There are couples like us.
(A real-life couple versus a celebrity couple)
(A dance sport class is open.)
Ready. Go.
(Skillful, sloppy)
Should I step back first?
That's nice.
- Turn. - One more time.
Turn.
They're doing great.
My goodness.
(They start dancing as they want.)
(The dance for people over 49)
(Passionate)
(I want to join the class too.)
Before we introduce today's stories,
we'll meet some people first.
Last time, we met a daughter whose dad...
expresses too much of his affection for her.
- It became the talk of the town. - I wonder...
how her family have been doing since the show aired,
and if there has been a positive change. We met the family.
- Let's watch together. - Okay.
Put it in the fridge.
- I hear someone laughing. - Right.
(Happy family, Soo Bin, Soo Ri, Soo Young)
That's pretty.
Their daughters are all pretty.
Has it been resolved?
Yes.
- Really? - He seems to try to be careful.
- He tries to be nicer to me. - She's their eldest daughter.
- Yes. - I...
thought I was playful.
So I decided to become a well-mannered dad.
I thought I should express my affection...
- in a different way. - He's quite young.
- So I've been trying to do so. - Her dad is quite young.
- Right? - Yes.
- I got a blister. - Why?
- While playing gayageum at school. - Weren't you late for school today?
- They're happy together. - That's right.
She's trying to look cute.
All of their daughters are pretty.
We're very happy together as you can see,
but when I read harsh comments...
I feel sad and think it's not fair.
It's not fair.
I felt upset because you were upset.
I want us to be like friends. Don't you?
- Yes. Of course. - Yes.
- Her dad is... - Right.
- He was a career soldier. - Yes, he was.
- Soo Bin. - Soo Young.
Soo Ri.
- We can do it! - We can do it!
All right.
Many people worried about them and showed interest in them.
We're grateful for that.
However, there were news articles that exaggerated the situation...
that was not entirely true.
And the family went through a hard time because of harsh comments.
We'd like to thank the family once again...
for sending us their story despite that.
We have three stories as always.
Let's check the keywords.
"Honey, Please Stop!"
"The Man Who Makes Me Worry".
"My Blood Is Boiling".
Yes. Let's begin.
The title is "Honey, Please Stop!"
Hello. I'm a mom in my 30s. I live in Jeonju, North Jeolla Province.
I have a husband who is very passionate and energetic.
"Honey, how about tonight?"
"I'm too tired."
"That's even better."
(What is he talking about?)
I heard if you conceive a baby when you are tired,
you can have a daughter.
My husband always says he wants to have another baby.
The problem is...
we already have a five-year-old daughter,
a three-year-old son,
and a seven-month-old daughter.
My gosh.
They already have three kids?
- We have 3 children. - A 7-month-old daughter too?
Nevertheless, my husband goes...
"Let's have another baby. What do you say?"
"Gosh. No."
"I can't have another baby."
"I will if you look after our children."
"You're their mom. You should look after them."
He doesn't even look after the children?
For four years after I got married,
I repeated pregnancy and childbirth.
I lived my life like a baby-making machine.
Today, in front of the entire nation,
I want my husband to make me a promise.
I can't have a fourth child!
That's her worry.
(It sounds like a worry.)
So Young, how many children do you plan to have?
When I see people with children,
I lose my confidence.
So my husband and I decided that we will have one...
when I am ready.
- That's your plan. - When you are ready.
Yes.
Sang Jin is such a sweet man.
Before we got married, he said he wanted three children.
- But now that we are married, - Never.
he realized that...
that's not feasible.
Seol Hyun, Min A, you are not married yet,
but what do you think it would be like?
Marriage is reality, you know? At least that's what I heard.
When the husband is not helping with the children,
I think having another child is not right.
If the husband is involved in the child-rearing,
- it would be better. - Of course.
Of course.
Let's bring out the guest.
(Who's the lady with a husband who insists on having a fourth child?)
(Kim Song Yi)
- Hello. - My goodness.
Your youngest is seven months old. Has the swelling gone away?
Yes, I guess you can say that.
- She's cute. - You look lovely.
- She's like a little girl. - She is.
People won't think of her as a mother of three children.
Does your husband ask you every day to have a fourth child?
Yes. Whenever he wakes up, he asks for a fourth child.
He starts asking as soon as he wakes up.
Whenever he wakes up?
I got pregnant with my 2nd child only 3 months after...
I gave birth to my first child.
- Really? - After just three months?
When my second child turned a year old,
I got pregnant with my third child.
When your second child was only a year old?
Your husband is impatient.
Yes. They are 5, 3, and 7 months old.
When I am already tired, he says if we conceive a baby...
in the morning, it's going to be a girl.
He says when we conceive a baby when we are full of energy...
- When you are full of energy. - during a weekday,
it's going to be a son. He keeps talking nonsense.
- Weekday. - That's nonsense.
When you conceive a baby during weekends, it's going to be a girl.
Doesn't it mean...
that your marital relationship is that good?
No. It's not like that.
- Your relationship isn't even good? - Right.
My husband and I think contraceptives are bad for health.
So I've been avoiding my husband.
Does he not use any contraceptives either?
Neither of us does.
- Why is it bad for health? - How do they affect your health?
Then how about the ones who wear rubber gloves...
every day to wash the dishes?
It's nonsense.
He's so selfish that he upsets me.
(Use of contraceptives promote healthy sex culture.)
How can you say they are bad for health?
We got pregnant with our 2nd and 3rd child...
in one try.
(It took them only one try.)
That's what happened.
- My gosh. - My gosh.
How many children did you originally plan to have?
Before we got married, my husband wanted four children.
He wanted four children from the start.
Because my 1st and 2nd children are just 1 year apart,
we were planning to have the 3rd child about 2 to 3 years later.
But when I tested my urine,
- I got two lines. - My goodness.
I threw the tester to him and cried.
- That's understandable. - It's already in the past.
You got two lines on the test.
- Right. - How did you feel at that time?
I was just dumbfounded.
Right.
She already knew what raising a child entailed.
I saw someone going through the postpartum depression.
She must've gone through a severe postpartum depression.
It's a bit extreme, but I asked my husband...
what he would do if I die of postpartum depression.
I...
- You said that to him. - I said that to him.
So it was really tough for her.
For the person going through it,
it must be so painful.
What did your husband say in return?
He said whether we raise 1, 2, 3, or 4,
it was all the same at the end of the day.
He doesn't know because he's never done it.
(Rather than comforting her, his words really hurt her.)
(That was too mean.)
You must've been speechless.
- You must've been too frustrated. - I told him...
then he should raise them. And he said...
I should raise the children because I am the mother.
- My gosh. - And because they only look for me,
he said it was only right that I raise them.
So I told him this.
"I am not a machine that gives birth to children."
(She exploded.)
Does your husband not help you with the children at all?
He's part of a lot of social groups.
- Social groups? - Yes.
- Social groups? - Go on.
When I tell him to watch them, he literally just watches them.
He only watches the children with his eyes.
(Are they flowers or what?)
Does he just stare at them like this?
When he comes home, the children are happy to see him,
so they ask him to play with them. But he gives them his phone...
and lies down because he's tired.
(Is his way of playing lying down?)
He's irresponsible.
Then why don't you tell us about...
your daily routine?
- My daily routine? - Yes. What time do you get up?
I get up at 7am.
I have to send my daughter to kindergarten, so I get her ready.
Then I get my second child ready for the kindergarten too.
I then feed the baby, do the laundry,
and clean the house.
When they come home, I spend an hour to bathe them.
I spend another hour drying them and putting on lotion.
I get them ready for bed by 9pm. That's the end of my day.
When do you eat?
I don't eat big meals.
I get snacks. When I give them fruits,
I eat 1 or 2.
- Is that it? - Yes.
Then...
the things that stress her out the most is...
If he's been helping her with the children,
although it's really tough, she would've considered...
- having a fourth child. - Right.
But without helping her at all, he insists on the fourth child.
- That's why she doesn't want it. - Right.
All right.
Let's meet her husband.
Hello.
(Who is her husband who wants a fourth child?)
(It's not fair that he should be this cute.)
Please speak to the mic.
- Hello. - Yes.
- This... - He looks like the sweetest man.
(Why did you do that to your wife?)
Do you understand your wife's worry?
I think it's not a worry.
(Why is that a worry?)
We already have a fetus name for every child.
The 1st child is Pongdang. The 2nd child is Pongpong.
The 3rd child is Dangdang. The 4th is Pongdang Pongdang.
- We need the fourth child. - "Dangdang"?
Your wife must want to throw a stone at you.
Get this!
Why are you so obsessed about having the fourth child?
I used to be a professional taekwondo athlete.
During that time, I stayed at a dorm for a long time.
Whenever I saw a big family, I got jealous.
But wouldn't it be not feasible if you continue to behave like this?
It's not like you are a lion or a tiger.
Why is the mother solely burdened with the child-rearing?
I think each parent...
has a different role.
I work as a taekwondo instructor.
I get a lot of free time during the morning.
So I also work as an insurance salesman.
I do my job, and my wife does her job.
I think we both need to sacrifice ourselves.
But you could have the fourth child...
when things get better.
Why do you burden her whenever you're awake?
Why are you so impatient?
I know a lot of families with three children.
They all say it's tough.
So...
Who do you hang out with? Families with three children?
Why are there so many people with three children?
You are not planning to form a taekwondo team, are you?
No.
If your fourth child is a girl, will you have another one?
(If the fourth child is a girl,)
(will he insist on the fifth child?)
(Please, honey.)
(What would...)
(the husband say?)
- Yes. - Yes?
I wouldn't mind a girl.
It's even better if they are twins.
(He prefers twins.)
(Oh, my goodness.)
Is it because he's not giving birth?
How well aware are you about the pain of childbirth?
I stayed by her every time she was giving birth.
I see.
My wife...
When she goes into labor,
she gives birth faster than other people.
She gives birth in less than an hour.
He's just trying to justify himself.
Do you mean it didn't hurt her much?
- Is that what you think? - It must've hurt.
But compared to other people, she's healthier,
and she gives birth faster.
Did you really give birth easily?
It wasn't easy at all.
I gave birth to my 1st 2 children without the epidural.
That must've hurt so much.
They need to inject it...
to your spine.
But I had a surgery on my back,
so they couldn't inject it.
It hurt so much.
- Of course. - So...
I screamed and told him that I'm going to get into a state of shock.
I asked him to let me have a surgery because it was too hard.
He saw everything.
- Did he? - And he still says this.
Even though he saw everything,
he tells everyone that I give birth easily.
(Is he immature?)
(It isn't tough for my wife.)
"She doesn't find it tough."
He tells everyone that.
When you are about to give birth, you go through the pain.
I don't know about it well.
But that period lasted only for a short time.
It was only a short while.
But you have to consider the entire time she was in labor.
Just because she gave birth quickly...
you can't say she wasn't in much pain.
My mother told me about the pain...
she went through to give birth to me.
She said giving birth to me was like...
penetrating a wall with her head.
- That's how tough it is. - Exactly.
He insists that he is...
doing his job well as the breadwinner of the family.
He thinks children grow by themselves once they're born.
My goodness.
He gives me 600 dollars a month to spend.
He tells me to run the household with that.
600 dollars for the family of 5?
- 600 dollars? - It wasn't enough.
I had to order diapers for the second child.
When I asked him for money to buy the diapers,
he said, "But I gave you the money last month."
"Try to save some money."
Money is a sensitive subject.
As I don't work, I have to...
(Choking up)
- Go on. - As it's my husband's money,
- I can't say anything. - Right. It's so sensitive.
Because it's not my money.
What about kindergarten or daycare center?
- Is it included? - It's included in the amount.
(She pulls off such an impossible task.)
I read in financial newspapers that...
some people live on just 20 dollars per day...
to save up money.
But sometimes, the kids need more diapers than usual.
The amount of money you need changes.
I give her some extra money when she needs it.
Because we've been thrifty,
we could go from renting an apartment...
to owning one.
(He has a point.)
Min A is here today...
to promote AOA's new song, "Bingle Bangle".
She was so excited in the beginning. But now...
(In the beginning,)
(she looked happy.)
(As she listens to the story,)
(she becomes more and more concerned.)
How are you two feeling?
- Our heads are spinning. - Our heads are spinning.
(Where are we? Who are we?)
As you don't have enough money, you must have considered...
working instead.
I was a kindergarten teacher before I got married.
- I'm sure you were very good. - She's so kind.
I wanted to go back to work after giving birth to my first kid,
but the situation didn't allow me to.
I couldn't go back to the kindergarten,
so I started working at a delivery service company.
But my kids got sick so often,
- and I had to be absent a lot. - Of course.
In the end, I was fired.
No one wanted to hire me, and I got pregnant with our third kid.
So I started helping my husband out at his taekwondo studio.
I was supposed to be at work by 2pm, but our third kid...
I mean...
Your second kid?
- Give me a second. - She's becoming emotional.
She can't handle it.
I was supposed to be at work by 2pm,
but sometimes I was 30 minutes late because of house chores.
- Of course. - Sometimes I was 20 minutes late.
He said, "We lost a customer because of you."
- "Why were you late?" - Why did you have to...
hurt your wife?
(Frustrated)
It seems like your wife is even...
helping you out.
Sometimes she goes to meet her friends.
"Can't I skip work today?" When I hear that,
I want her to be more responsible.
- Hold on. - What's wrong with meeting friends?
- Can't she do that? - I don't understand.
Your husband has a lot of social groups, right?
- Should I tell you everything? - Yes, please.
Are there a lot? Not just a couple?
He's in soccer clubs.
For soccer clubs, Loko, JB, Changcheon,
- Inu, - Are they all soccer clubs?
- TMC... - Is he in all of them?
- Yes. - That many?
He is in five soccer clubs.
Is he FIFA or what?
It doesn't seem to end there. That's just soccer clubs.
- He's in 5 soccer clubs? - He's in 5 soccer clubs.
- Oh, my. - He's also in a taekwondo club,
a neighborhood watch group, a middle school friend group...
A middle school friend group.
- How many is that? - It's eight.
- 8? - What else?
(What was it?)
- Is that all? - It's so many that...
- she has to ask the writer. - She's confused.
The writer says it's 9 in total. There's 1 more.
A high school friend group... No. I already said that.
What is the other one?
She talked about nine clubs, there is another taekwondo club.
Even if you meet each group once a month, it'd be 10 times.
- Right? - That's right.
If he meets each group twice a month, it'd be 20 times in total.
When he meets his groups, what time does he come home?
Around 2 or 3 in the morning.
Once, he passed out in the living room...
and threw up between a mat and a drawer.
(I don't want to hear about it!)
I was almost due with our second kid.
What a nice thing to do to your pregnant wife.
You're too nice to him.
That might be why he keeps doing it.
Just let him be. Let him take care of himself.
The next day, I talked to him about it,
and he said, "I don't remember, honey."
Like earlier?
(He made a heart with his fingers.)
(I love making a heart with my fingers.)
- Hold on. - You have a lot of social groups.
Do you have to drink with all of them?
Older guys in the groups want me to be there when they drink.
They say it's no fun without me.
I'm good at brightening up the mood.
Do you care more about them than your wife?
I care about my wife more,
but she's been doing such a great job so far.
What are you talking about?
She's struggling.
I try to help her a lot.
It's just that I haven't been able to show you.
We don't have much time to talk.
I come home around 10pm.
In the morning, we have to take care of our kids.
What do you do for her?
I take the kids outside on the weekends.
And I try to wash them as often as I can.
- On the weekends? - Yes.
There are eight weekend days in a month.
How many days a month do you wash the kids?
About six days, I'd say.
(Speechless)
It's not true?
He washes them when I beg him to.
- You have to ask him. - Yes.
He says he spends weekends with his family.
When there is a taekwondo competition,
he has to spend the weekend out of town.
- There are things like that. - He goes on excursions too.
He goes on overnight trips with the groups.
(He often stays out.)
His friends from Jeonju are here too.
- Really? - They're here.
- Let's meet them. - From the groups?
- Hello. - Welcome.
(His friends are here.)
Your friend wants a fourth child.
But then he'd have to meet his friends less.
I'd gladly help him.
I want a fourth child too.
He has to succeed first...
for me to have something to say to my wife.
The thing is, he's very funny...
and sociable. He can even drink a lot.
He is very popular among guys.
- So... - But he's not popular at home.
- Who are the others? - That's my cousin.
- Your cousin? - Hello.
- Hello. - Hi.
What do you think about your cousin's story?
Do you think it's a worry?
It's definitely a worry.
It's absolutely problematic.
There's something she always says to me.
"Jin Hee, this is too hard for me."
"I want to go on trips when my kids grow up."
"I want to go somewhere all by myself."
But her husband has no idea.
- That she's suffering. - Not the slightest idea.
He says he helps her out on the weekends.
- What do you think? - That's just what he thinks.
- What he thinks. - It's just what he thinks.
- It's just what he thinks? - Yes.
What do you think?
I think it's a worry too.
I don't understand why he wants a fourth kid.
When we eat together,
he asks his wife to do things for him.
(What...)
(does that mean?)
"I'm craving noodles. Cook some noodles for me."
He makes her do things like that.
(Frustrated)
You must sometimes feel so sad.
When one of our kids gets sick,
- the others get sick too... - I see.
- Right. - because they stay together.
Once, I wanted to hold them,
but I couldn't control my body. My whole body ached.
My husband was with one of his soccer clubs.
(He was not home when she needed him.)
I asked him, "When are you coming home?"
"One of the members' daughter is going to sing and dance."
- What? - He was excited?
Yes, he was.
"Come home and watch your kids instead."
I said that to him and hung up.
After a moment, he sent me a message.
He sent me a video of the girl singing and dancing.
- What were you thinking? - My goodness.
(Glaring)
- He's not a bad person. - You're right.
He is just a kind-hearted, patriarchal husband.
(Laughing)
A kind-hearted, patriarchal husband.
If this goes on,
I would never want another kid.
Do you really think you need another kid?
I want to have another kid...
while I'm still young and can handle it.
Like I said, it's natural that we're struggling now.
But in 10 years,
we'll laugh more than others.
You should be happy right now.
We're very happy now too.
- You're talking about the future. - Are you happy?
Your wife isn't.
My wife is very happy too thanks to our kids.
Today I've been telling myself,
"I shouldn't speak my mind."
"It's their lives. I should let them be."
But I'm just too upset.
She has 1 kid on her back and holds 2 other kids' hands.
Where should the fourth kid go?
What should she do if she has to take them to the hospital?
Tell me what she should do.
(Thinking)
I should come with her.
You'd be playing soccer.
You're busy playing soccer and taekwondo. When will you help?
Tell me!
Well...
Do you want to fight with Yeong Ja?
I really want to.
- Let me fight him. - I know.
(Even the thought of it makes him feel dizzy.)
- He's being greedy. - His children are here.
Call their names.
- Your first child is... - Seo Yul.
Call her name. Seo Yul.
Seo Yul. Jin. Seo Hee.
Mom's here. Mom.
- Mom. - Come to Mommy.
- Dad is over there. - Look.
- Mommy's over there. - Mom and Dad.
- Second child. - Come here. He's so cute.
(It's Yeong Ja!)
(He walks backward.)
Mommy's over there.
- Mom. - Mom.
- Hi. - He's so adorable.
- Mommy. - She can recognize people.
(Staring)
You carry her like this.
Goodness. You carry her like this.
You grab the 1st and 2nd children and go to hospital?
- Yes. With her in front. - Grab.
Grab your mom's hand.
(The third child is crying when it's already chaotic.)
How is she going to bring the fourth child?
How is she supposed to cross the road?
Do you really want to play soccer in this situation?
- This is what she does every day. - Dad!
(Dad!)
Goodness.
She's blaming her dad.
"Dad!"
Do you want to babysit them?
Can you babysit all three?
(The husband is on the way.)
All three.
- Let's go to your dad. - Let's go to Daddy.
Let's go to Daddy.
Go to Daddy.
Babysit all three. What are you going to do?
(Carry 1st, 2nd and 3rd.)
What are you going to do?
I'm your fourth child. What are you going to do?
(What?)
What are you going to do about me?
Dad. What about me?
It's already too much for you.
It says 1, 2 and 3 on their back.
Isn't it too much to carry three children?
1st, 2nd, 3rd.
(You need to understand my worry.)
- Your children are adorable. - Yes.
You cry just by calling their names.
Children make me happy.
- Of course. - I'm happy,
but I feel sorry for them.
What do you feel sorry about? Tell me three things.
Since I had the third child,
the first child doesn't get any attention.
So even now, I want to hug them more,
love them more,
and love the first child more,
but he keeps telling me to have a fourth child.
Then how about this?
For three years,
your wife will watch how you do,
and decide...
depending on how you behave.
Can you let her decide?
- That's good. - Yes.
I'm okay...
if she's okay.
Say something to your husband.
Honey. Let's stop having babies,
so that I can give more love to our children.
That's sad.
If you promise today...
I'm an honorary ambassador for Korea Urology Association.
I'll help you get...
a free vasectomy.
(Amazed)
It's improved so much that if you change your mind,
you can get back to normal.
(Let me know if you change your mind.)
(The husband will answer in a moment.)
Let's start with Ji Sang Yeol.
This is a worry for sure.
I also think it's a worry.
It's totally a worry.
You married a woman you love.
You should take this chance...
to respect your wife's decision for her happiness.
I think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
I don't have a child yet.
When I had a fight,
my wife said this to me crying.
She said she's just a woman...
who wants to be loved in this society rather than as a wife.
I think you should see her as a woman...
rather than a mother of your children.
Okay.
Please get your switches ready.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop!
Honey.
(To his wife)
I didn't know you were...
so worried about it.
As we live together,
I'll try my best in the next three years.
If you still think no even after three years,
I'll give up too.
If you accept my suggestion, it will be clean.
(It will solve the problem.)
Right.
Are you rejecting Dong Yeob's suggestion?
(What does he say?)
I will accept it.
Really?
(Smiling)
Say something to your friends in Jeonju.
Are you watching the show, guys?
Please understand even if I don't...
show up at the gatherings.
I have to try my best for my family,
so don't be disappointed.
Right.
Let's see how many votes they won. Show us the result.
("Honey, Please Stop!")
Is it over 100?
- It's over 100. - It's over 100.
Among 200, how many?
143? 153?
(And?)
153!
(They won 153 votes.)
She says she's shocked every day...
because of a man.
I'm a woman in my 30s,
and even a phone call makes my heart pound.
"This is the police."
- "The man is unconscious." - What?
"This is hospital. You need to come right now."
This is all because of my dad...
who is hurt every time he drinks.
- Come on. - Her dad.
Bruises and scratches are normal.
Recently, he hit his face...
on the parked truck when he was drunk.
He fractured his bones.
But...
"Gosh. After stitching up,"
"my eyes are itchy."
"I can't smell or taste."
"Gosh. What do I do?"
"Yes. Where?"
"Makgeolli sounds good. I'm on my way now."
He's hurt.
Even after all that fuss,
he goes out for a drink just like the Jeonju guy.
The Jeonju guy only sleeps.
Thump and clanging.
I was so frustrated that I flipped the table,
but he said,
"It's normal to drink this much at this age."
"Mind your own business."
I'm more worried...
because since I got married two years ago,
I moved out from my parents' house.
When I think about my mom who has to take care of this alone,
my heart breaks.
- Please stop my dad from drinking. - Goodness.
(Please stop drinking.)
Alcohol is one of regular worries.
- They get into accidents. - They keep getting hurt.
Still, the daughter flipped the table.
- She did. - I think...
no situation justifies flipping the table.
When can you flip the table?
You can never do that.
You must finish the meal first then fight.
- Flip the empty table? - Of course.
How about you?
I actually don't have any major drinking habits.
Don't take it wrong.
After the concert, my boss said...
(After party with her boss after the concert)
"I'm so tired, Min A."
When he said that,
"Are you tired? We're more tired."
- That's cute. - I don't remember it.
Since then, I restrain myself from drinking.
That's cute.
Actually those drinking habits aren't that bad.
- Min Kyung Hoon becomes very cute. - Scary?
When he drinks a lot,
he's like, "I'm drunk, Dong Yeob."
He's lisping.
Lisping.
What about you, So Young?
- I... - Apparently,
she can differentiate soju...
- by brand. - Really?
- Really? - You can do that?
She doesn't look like that at all.
When I was in university, I drank a lot...
- because I was young. - Do you know by brand?
When I drink different soju in cups,
I can tell them apart.
This is that "first intention" brand.
If she can differentiate them, her liver's got to be a brick.
- Really? - It hardens.
(I don't do that anymore.)
Let's bring in the guest. Please come out.
(Who's the guest worried about her father's excessive drinking?)
(Yoo Eun Jin)
He gets hurt every time he drinks?
Scratching his knees, elbows, and face...
- is normal. - Goodness.
- He keeps falling down. - Yes.
Also, we live on the fourth floor.
One time, he was walking up the stairs,
- and he rolled down. - That's dangerous.
He even went unconscious.
Two years ago,
he fell down towards a store...
with glass windows.
The glass window was shattered.
That's dangerous.
(Shattered)
The glass pieces got stuck on his arms.
He went to ICU.
He needed to get a surgery right away,
- but he was drunk. - He couldn't get the surgery.
- No. - Right.
- He won't be put under anesthesia. - We had to wait...
for 3, 4 hours until he was sober.
One time he had to do that to get the surgery.
- We also had to pay for the glass. - How much was it?
- We paid them 2,000 dollars. - It must've been a big window.
Recently, I am getting more worried because...
the accidents are getting more and more serious.
- The truck. - Yes.
It was a parked truck. As he was falling,
he bumped his face into the corner of the truck.
So all of his forehead bones were shattered.
So he had to get 2 to 3 surgeries for it.
That's serious.
After staying at the hospital for a month, he got out.
And he got into the same situation again.
- He met with his friends again... - When you get hurt like that,
you usually stop drinking or drink less.
- Now... - Right now,
do your parents live by themselves?
Two years ago, I got married and moved to Gyeonggi Province.
My little brother lives in Gunsan because of his job.
So Mom and Dad are staying in Jeonju by themselves.
- Jeonju? - Are you from Jeonju?
(They happen to come from Jeonju too.)
Jeonju.
How many social groups is your father part of?
(He's from Jeonju too.)
So whenever something happens,
- Your mother takes care of it. - my mother has to...
- take care of it alone. - Your mom must be worn out.
My brother and I got really upset...
and told Mom to divorce Dad.
- I told them to get a divorce. - The children said that.
- You told them to get divorced. - Yes.
- What did your mother say? - My mother said...
when an old man is left by himself,
- he's bound to turn into a beggar. - She was worried.
She said she couldn't do that to our dad.
I heard you have a special reason why you sent us your story.
The crew told us.
I watched the episode about the man who drinks every day.
And we said he's been keeping his promise.
- Did that make you come here? - When I saw that,
I thought perhaps my dad would change too...
if we come out here.
- That's why I sent the story. - You did well.
Anyway, the fact that your father is here today...
must mean that he's made up his mind too.
Let's talk to him. Hello, sir.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who's her father who troubles the family by drinking excessively?)
Sir, your daughter is very worried.
You must understand her.
I understand her perfectly.
Why don't you listen to her then?
Why do you drink so much?
While I understand her,
when time passes,
I give into the temptation of my friends. subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
- Right. - Temptation?
What do you think about you getting hurt every time you drink?
Whenever I drink a lot, I keep falling.
I keep getting my face hurt.
But strangely, I get well every time.
(That is very strange.)
- That's nonsense. - That's...
- There's an old saying... - Your wounds heal fast?
- Yes, they heal fast. - Like Wolverine?
(I'm already healed.)
(Smiling)
When you drink, how much do you drink?
When I drink just enough, I drink two bottles of soju.
Is that when you still remember everything?
No. Sometimes, I drink one bottle and black out.
- He doesn't drink well. - It depends...
on my condition that day.
I am sorry to ask, sir,
- but can we see the wound? - Which part was it?
It's this area.
This part of the forehead.
By the way, like what he said, he actually healed very fast.
- Right. - Do you think so?
Really?
When he said he gets healed well,
I thought he was talking nonsense, but he's actually healed well.
Everyone seems dumbfounded.
(I am fine.)
Can you show us your wound on your arm?
This is what my daughter was talking about.
A glass shard got stuck. It was ripped from here to here.
My bone protruded.
What's important is that...
you don't remember where you got hurt, right?
I try not to remember the small accidents.
- The small accidents. - I heal fast anyway.
But I remember some big accidents.
I don't remember what happened when I passed out.
How about the truck? You ran into the truck.
I remember bumping into it, but I don't remember the rest.
(He doesn't remember what happened afterwards.)
If it's that bad, have you thought about quitting drinking...
for a little while?
I often think about quitting drinking.
- But you can't stick to it. - I often think about it.
I think about quitting drinking,
but soon I change my mind to drinking less.
No. No.
Your daughter shockingly...
overturned the table in front of you.
When you saw that,
didn't you think that you should quit for her?
I know that I shouldn't do this.
Do you forget it when time passes?
I forget about it when I go outside.
(He forgets about his determination.)
The person who must be having the toughest time...
must be her mother. Let's meet her.
How do you feel whenever he gets hurt?
When he got his face hurt,
it felt like someone hit me...
in the back of my head. After he got his surgery,
I felt bad for him, but at the same time I resented him.
Why did he wake up then?
I said it would've been better if he didn't.
(She gets emotional.)
I even told him that.
- But he didn't change. - He's still the same.
It always gets repeated.
Ever since your daughter got married,
you don't call her every time it happens, do you?
I feel ashamed to call my daughter.
Before she got married, it was fine because she grew up seeing it.
But now she belongs to another family.
And I don't want her to see bad things.
If I call her and her husband hears about it,
she would be so ashamed.
- I sympathize strongly. - Right.
In 365 days, how many days does he drink?
I think it's 480 days.
His year is very long, isn't it?
Does he have any other habits?
When he drinks... We live on the fourth floor.
As he walks into the first floor, he yells.
- "Honey!" - "Come here!"
"I drank because I felt good. Come and fetch me."
Does he not ask you to pick him up?
- He always does that. - What?
He does that every time.
I work,
and sometimes when I come home late from work, he's not at home.
When I call him,
he says he's at a makgeolli place and asks me to pick him up.
When I tell him to just get a cab,
he says it's hard to get a cab and asks me to pick him up.
When I go and fetch him,
I have to give ride to most of his friends.
(She has to take his friends home too.)
Do you go home after you drop everyone off?
You said your work ends late.
What do you do?
- I work at a grocery store. - That must be tough.
It's been nearly 20 years.
Do you work because you are bored...
or because you need to make a living?
Since before we were married,
he spent what he earned.
And it's been like that even after we got married.
Does he not give money to the family?
He doesn't. He spends what he earns.
- What? - What?
That man from Jeonju at least gives his wife 600 dollars.
(He at least gives his wife 600 dollars.)
- He doesn't give you any money? - Not even 600 dollars?
In the past, I wanted to get money from my husband...
at the end of each month like everybody else.
So I asked him.
And one day, he gave me an envelope.
I was so thankful. So I opened It.
(How much was inside the envelope?)
There was 53 dollars inside the envelope.
(He gave her 53 dollars.)
53 dollars.
Is that the only time he gave you money?
- Until now? - Yes.
(She can't believe what she heard.)
(He's unbelievable.)
You have a daughter and a son.
Have you been paying for all the child rearing expenses?
I'm sure he contributed.
Whenever I told him that it was tough...
When I told him 10 times,
- he gave me money once. - Did he give you money once?
Paying their college tuition was the hardest.
It was really tough to pay for both children's tuitions.
I even borrowed money from my aunt.
- How about the cost for the glass? - 2,000 dollars.
- Who paid for that? - He must've paid for it.
- Don't tell me you paid for it. - He must've.
You must've paid for it. Right?
Of course. I have to pay for that.
When I get into accidents, I pay for all the costs.
Let's hear from her.
Most of the time, Mom pays.
She's the one taking care of the insurances.
Most of the time, Dad pushes things to Mom.
- He asks her. - He relies on her on everything.
He asks her to look into things and to take care of things.
- Who paid for the compensation? - The glass.
- From my understanding, it was Mom. - Did you pay for it, ma'am?
I did.
You must be embarrassed, sir. You even lied.
She paid for the compensation too.
(Shaking her head)
Come on and talk to us.
How can you let your wife make a living for the family all along?
Living expenses?
- How could you not pay her? - You must've felt sorry.
- My gosh. - Sir.
Did you spend all your money on drinking?
I have a lot to spend for myself.
Personal expenses?
I have to pay for insurances and various events.
- I have to drink and smoke. - Right.
When you have so much to spend for yourself,
why did you bother getting married?
You should've used everything for yourself.
As the daughter, you've been watching your mother suffer...
for the past 20 years.
It must've been really hard to watch her go through it.
It would've been fine if Mom was in good health.
But her joints are in bad shape.
Because she moves her arms a lot,
the cartilage in her arms became worn out.
I see.
She gets steroid injection...
in order to work.
Her knees are in such bad shape...
that it's uncomfortable for her to sit down and stand up.
- She has arthritis. - Yes.
One time, at work,
the employees of the store...
were having a meeting.
She passed out.
- Did she pass out? - Yes.
A friend of my mom called me,
so I went to the hospital.
She is in poor health.
She was unconscious.
My coworkers and I often have a meeting standing up.
(She wipes her tears.)
I collapsed during the meeting.
Why...
Seol Hyun, you are shedding tears.
- It's just that... - What makes your heart ache?
Do her words frustrate you?
(Eun Jin's mom sheds tears as well.)
I am reminded of my grandma.
You are reminded of your grandma.
What about her?
She was in poor health, too.
Did your grandma raise you?
When I was young, I spent a lot of time with my grandma.
Was your grandma also in poor health due to strenuous work?
Yes.
(She sympathizes with Eun Jin more than anyone.)
- My goodness. - Dong Yeob became flustered...
upon seeing Seol Hyun's tears.
I am also reminded of my grandma.
(She gets ready to shed tears.)
(Surprised)
- Are you tearing up? - Yes.
Eat the tears.
(She stops right away.)
(I laughed for a moment thanks to her.)
I don't know what it is. My mom,
Seol Hyun's grandma, and Eun Jin's mom went through the same thing.
I don't know how they endured it.
Every time my mom went to bed, she said,
"I hope I don't wake up tomorrow."
Life was too hard for her,
so she hoped she wouldn't wake up for another day.
If Eun Jin's dad doesn't change today,
he will live that way for the rest of his life.
Did you know about your wife's health?
It seems like I was too uncaring and indifferent.
However, if she is in bad health,
she should take care of herself.
- What? - A stranger can't do that for her.
You are her husband, not a stranger.
Ma'am,
are you upset? Perhaps you are so used to him...
that you don't even feel upset.
To be honest, I am very upset.
"I married you because I had faith in you."
"You shouldn't make me suffer so much." I said that often,
but he doesn't change.
Giving up was the only way...
I could live.
- Now... - You gave up.
Yes. I just live this way.
Sir.
You don't think that you have done anything wrong,
do you?
No, I do think that.
What have you done wrong?
Listening to people's opinions on this show...
made me realize that I have done everything wrong.
What would you do if your son-in-law acts the same way?
Your son-in-law's friend always calls him out for a drink.
- He falls down all the time. - He gets hurt in his drunken state.
How would you feel?
My son-in-law...
- Answer the question. - How would you feel?
He doesn't...
- How would you feel? - How would you feel?
I wouldn't forgive him.
You wouldn't forgive him.
Then why do you forgive yourself so easily?
(Embarrassed)
Let's talk to his son-in-law.
- Hello. - He wouldn't get drunk.
(He looks like a kind and dependable man.)
He looks like a kind man.
You know that your wife worries about her father, right?
Of course I do.
My father-in-law is a nice man when he doesn't drink.
That's right.
Whenever I hear over the phone that he got hurt,
I feel bad.
There must be times...
you get upset because of your father-in-law.
It would be a lie if I say it never happens.
Why do you get upset?
Before I got married to Eun Jin, I made a promise to him.
Even though Eun Jin and I live far away.
I promised to visit him once a month.
It has been two years and I kept my promise.
(He kept his promise.)
My goodness.
What does he do when you visit him?
At lunchtime, he eats with us.
At dinnertime,
- he gets a call from his friends... - He goes out.
and goes out.
(He deserts his daughter and son-in-law.)
(It's hard to do that.)
Does he have other drunk habits...
besides getting hurt?
When he is in a bad mood,
he takes it out on his family.
- My goodness. - He doesn't do it to the others.
"Why is there no cup?"
- Does he complain like that? - "For goodness' sake!"
He starts his every sentence with that.
(He takes out his anger on his family.)
Does he do that when he is sober?
He doesn't talk much when he is sober.
- He doesn't talk much. - No.
(He doesn't talk much when he is sober.)
I don't understand his friends.
If his family is suffering,
his friends should help...
so that he can put some distance between him and his friends.
True friends would do that.
A friend of Eun Jin's dad is here. Let's talk to him.
- Hello. - Hello.
It's nice to meet you.
Are you a friend of Eun Jin's dad?
I am, but he is older than me.
He is the life of the party.
He has a way with words.
He is compassionate and understanding.
He is like that.
At home,
he isn't cheerful or objective.
He doesn't even talk much.
Did you know that he gets hurt in his drunken state?
Yes, I knew.
Then his friends should help him.
Since there was a big accident,
I thought that I shouldn't drink with him...
very often.
That's right.
Ma'am, you said that...
you can't live with him anymore.
There was an incident back in the days.
I was suffering so much that I asked my children a question.
"I am suffering so much..."
"that I can't take this anymore."
"How would you feel if I don't live with your dad?"
(She was determined to get a divorce.)
My daughter agreed to my idea...
and begged me to take her and her brother with me.
"If it's a hassle to take us with you,"
"get us a room." She said she will take care of her brother.
My goodness.
I can see that this problem has persisted...
for many years.
(She wanted to get away from her dad.)
(Eun Jin and her mom couldn't stand his drunk habits.)
"If I endure this, my children won't be hurt."
"There is no need to give them an emotional scar."
(She endured 40 years for her children.)
That's why I endured.
Both of them listened to me so well.
Looking back on it, I am glad that I endured.
(Don't cry, Mom.)
She endured,
but nothing changed.
It makes me so frustrated.
Even I am frustrated.
You must have been aware of this.
She must have talked about divorce back in the days.
It's a serious matter.
I have nothing to say.
Sir, think about it.
You have a fun time and spend money...
- with your friends, right? - Yes.
Who nursed you back to health when you got hurt?
Your wife and your daughter did.
- Yes. - Do they deserve that?
(Does his family deserve that?)
No, they don't.
Do you want to quit drinking...
even if it means getting outside help?
Do you have no intention to quit drinking?
I would be okay with having a glass of alcohol at home...
and not drinking outside.
- Really? - I swear.
Ma'am, would it be better...
if he drinks a glass of alcohol at home...
instead of drinking outside?
- It would be a lot better. - I see.
- Then he wouldn't get hurt. - It's the least he can do.
Do his drunk habits come out...
when he drinks at home?
- No, they don't. - I see.
They have never come out.
In that case, sir...
If you must continue to drink,
can you promise that you will only drink...
at home?
I promise that.
Really?
You made a promise before the entire nation.
He made a promise so easily.
I don't know if I can believe him.
I have been fooled for 30 years.
- Is he lying? - He will smoke and drink...
until the day he dies.
Then we will have no choice but to send the camera crew.
You can send them to check.
He said that in such a cool way.
Sir, please don't lie.
(Otherwise, we will cry.)
Ma'am, now that you are here,
please tell your husband what you would like of him.
I know I should trust my husband,
but I am as doubtful as my daughter.
- Also, - It's understandable.
when our children come home,
he can drink with them.
He doesn't drink a lot at home anyway.
His siblings have a family get-together...
3 or 4 times a week.
At those get-togethers, he is the only one who gets drunk.
I hope he wouldn't drink on those occasions.
It's my biggest wish.
(It's all she asks.)
I know that you are a good dad.
This time,
please be a dad who doesn't embarrass me.
Please keep your promise.
Why don't you say a few words to your mom as well?
She sacrificed her life for the sake of her children.
Tell her that you love her. Tell her that you are grateful.
Looking at her mom brings tears to her eyes.
Tell her to stay healthy.
Mom, take care of your health.
Please live cheerfully...
for yourself from now on.
I love you.
Sir, people in the studio...
are shedding tears...
because they sympathize...
with your wife and daughter's pain.
Please tell your family...
that you will change.
My daughter.
From now on, don't worry.
(Sighing)
(Her words moved his heart.)
Talk to your daughter.
I will change a lot.
I will be better so that you won't have to worry.
Don't worry.
(Holding)
Kim In Soo.
I am sorry.
You put up with me so far. Please put up with me a bit longer.
(Joking)
I will change so that you won't have to worry.
Let's live well together. I love you.
(Please keep your promise.)
All right.
Ji Woo, put yourself in Eun Jin's shoes.
If you think it's a worry, press the button.
(Ji Woo thinks it's a worry.)
You think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
- I also think... - AOA released a new song,
but the members are in tears.
What was the title of the new song?
- "Bingle Bangle". - "Bingle Bangle".
My dad passed away.
It was only after he passed away that I realized how precious he was.
I realized how important a dad is...
in a family.
I hope you would quit drinking for your family's sake.
It's certainly a worry.
(Sang Yeol thinks it's a worry.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Show us the result.
"The Man Who Makes Me Worry".
In the first place is a worry from Jeonju as well.
You are watching the Jeonju Special.
(Will it be able to beat the other worry?)
What's the result?
(148 votes)
The worry got 148 votes.
(148 votes)
The title is "My Blood Is Boiling".
Hello,
I am a man in my 40s with 2 children who has been married for 15 years.
(Laughing)
At some point, my wife stopped doing it.
She doesn't even do it once a month.
"Honey, please do it this once. One hour is all I ask."
"How about 30 minutes?"
"I am tired. I will do it the next time."
My wife doesn't do any household chores.
- Household chores? - She is really lazy.
"Gosh, what is this smell? There is a mold in the fridge!"
"Really? I didn't know."
When I come back home after working hard all day,
I do the dishes and clean up the house.
"Let's split the household chores."
"I have no talent in doing the household chores."
I wasn't born with the ability to do the household chores.
My wife is lazier than a sloth. What should I do?
(What should I do about my wife's laziness?)
Let's invite this man to the stage.
Please come on out.
There he is.
(Kim Sung Il)
(Welcome)
Your wife must be very lazy...
for you to visit Hello.
When I do the laundry...
and ask her to hang it up to dry,
she leaves it in the washing machine...
- for 2 or 3 days. - She leaves it there.
- It becomes smelly. - She doesn't hang it up.
- She doesn't hang it up. - After a while,
I bought a dryer and dried the clothes, too.
- Then she didn't fold them. - She left them in the dryer.
She sometimes leaves them outside.
- She doesn't even fold them. - No.
No. In the end,
I made a basket for each person.
The family members take out their clothes from them.
However, the clothes get wrinkled a lot.
- Of course. - The clothes get thrown in...
- without getting folded. - She doesn't clean...
the house either. There are clothes everywhere.
When you get groceries, they come in a box.
Instead of putting them away, she leaves them in the box.
- The food... - It rots.
Yes. It happens often. I often wonder...
if the house has been robbed.
Does the house look as if it has been ransacked?
Yes, it does.
Sometimes, there are nail clippings on the floor.
- Nail clippings? - Apparently, my wife...
clipped her nails and didn't clean up afterwards.
She is the master of uncleanliness.
- Yes. - She is the master.
It has been 15 years since I got married.
I don't think she has cleaned the restroom once.
- She never did it in 15 years. - Since my wife has long hair,
there is a lot of hair on the floor. She never cleans it up,
- so it became my responsibility. - You always clean it up.
Does she never do any household chores?
- She is tired after work. - She works.
Yes. When she comes home from work,
she cooks dinner for children, but doesn't clean up afterwards.
One time, I didn't do the dirty dishes in the sink.
She didn't do the dishes until she used up all the dishes.
(She is strong.)
She let the dirty dishes pile up.
- She is strong. - She is strong.
- She is strong. - Please give us more details.
How many days does it take to use up the dishes at home?
It must have taken about 4 or 5 days.
The pile must have been as high as Dabo Pagoda.
(That's why I end up doing all the household chores.)
Has she been this way since the beginning of the marriage?
It has only been a year since she began to work.
Not much was different when she was a housewife.
She was still lazy when she was a housewife.
That's right.
I don't think this is a bad thing.
It's not like she has changed.
You must have been aware of her tendencies.
- She is consistent. - That's right.
It's not like she has changed.
I am in technology sales.
I drive long distances, so I want to rest at home.
It's impossible when the house is dirty.
"You need to do household chores."
Have you talked to her firmly?
I have, but it only evolved into a fight.
"I have no talent in household chores."
(So he ends up doing them.)
Let's talk to Sung Il's wife. Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is the wife who never does household chores?)
Sung Il said that you are lazy. What do you think about that?
- I admit it. - You admit it.
- She is cool. - I am like that.
She is a nice woman.
People never admit their faults, but she did it right away.
- The worry has been resolved. - The worry has been resolved.
- She is a nice woman. - She admits her fault.
- She is a nice woman. - She is consistent.
That's right.
After work, I get groceries,
prepare dinner, eat dinner,
and rest. When I think about cleaning up, he yells at me.
- You were going to clean up. - "Why is the house a mess?"
"What will the children learn?"
When I hear those words...
- You don't want to do anything. - No.
(I can't believe this is my fault.)
He said that you don't clean up your nail clippings.
I don't do it every time. It must have happened once.
I didn't think he would talk about it here.
You don't put groceries or leftovers in the refrigerator.
They make insects come. Isn't it a problem?
It is. It is a problem.
- "It is." - Does it really happen?
When I make dinner and eat,
time flies by.
- Do you forget? - Yes.
(I forget.)
I didn't make my husband do the dishes.
He said he will do them.
When I do the dishes, he always says,
"Why are you doing the dishes? I said I will do them."
Then I don't do them the next time so that my husband can do them.
I think the two of you are different.
You can't stand seeing the dirty dishes in the sink.
You must be impatient.
It's not that the house is dirty.
My husband wants the house to look like a show house.
- He wants everything organized. - I am like that, too.
He doesn't want anything laying around.
It's hard to live that way every day.
You don't think the house is dirty.
Sung Il, could it be that...
- you are overly clean? - Are you a neat freak?
I don't think I am.
My wife never throws anything out.
Throwing things away is the key to a clean house.
- She doesn't throw things away. - No.
For an example, there are three pianos in the house.
Three pianos?
- She must be a music teacher. - Is the house a music academy?
Why are there three pianos?
She got them for free through an internet society.
- That's how she got three pianos. - An internet society.
She says she will use them later.
- She won't throw them away. - They must take up a lot of space.
I was thinking that it would be nice for my daughter to learn piano...
when I saw an offer for a children's piano...
on the internet society.
Since she grew too big for a children's piano,
I was thinking about getting a new piano...
when I saw an offer for a digital piano.
The owner gave me a small keyboard as well.
- It came as a set. - I couldn't refuse,
so I held on to it with an intention of giving it...
to someone who needs it.
(Am I the only person who doesn't understand?)
Since they have different opinions,
we will talk to their children.
Hello, son. Do you understand your dad's worry?
- Yes. - He understands it.
I wanted to drink water...
because I was thirsty,
but there wasn't a clean cup. So I ended up...
- using a bowl instead. - She hadn't done the dishes.
- No. - I bet the water still tasted good.
Yes.
Did it happen once or many times?
Many times.
In your opinion, is your mom a bit lazy?
Yes.
(He is a good witness.)
Since my dad does most of the house chores,
he says "Oh, Lord" while doing dishes...
- "Oh, Lord"? - with a weird face.
He says "Oh, Lord" while washing dishes like this?
Do you think your house is usually...
clean or a little dirty?
It's average.
- It must not be that bad. - Average?
Have you ever visited your friend's house?
My friends' houses are similar to mine.
- Are they dirty like your house? - Yes.
- Her house is dirty. - She fell for it.
(Oh, no.)
Do you help your dad with house chores...
when he seems tired?
Yes, I do because I'm scared when my parents fight.
My dad told my mom to clean up the house,
and my mom said she would clean up later.
Then my dad said he didn't want to live with her anymore.
Were you afraid...
- they might get divorced? - Yes.
- Oh, dear. - So...
did they continue fighting while saying...
they didn't want to live together?
My dad went into their room to go to bed first,
and the next morning, they made up with each other.
(I see.)
(Of course.)
- Something happened that night. - Hold on. That's weird.
(What happened that night?)
Children know everything.
I wonder what happened that night.
(Please don't fight.)
Does your wife put off anything else other than house chores?
When my wife has to pay for...
the community club activities,
she always tells me at the last minute.
So I have to deal with it hurriedly.
We needed a copy of family register to combine our phone accounts.
To get a mobile phone family plan?
That's right. My wife said she would take care of it,
so I waited.
But she didn't do it, so I had to take care of it at the last minute.
The community club activity is to watch a play.
But I can't make a decision just because I wanted to do so.
- You should ask your children too. - Yes.
I couldn't tell him earlier because it took me time to decide.
We changed our phone plans... I was at home, and he said,
"Let's go to a mobile phone shop and get new phones."
So we went to get new phones.
- That's too much. - On that day,
he told me to get a copy of our family register.
So I knew I had to do it,
but he didn't tell me until when I should do it.
- So I... - What she says makes sense.
(His wife sounds reasonable.)
When he got mad at me asking why I didn't...
get it done, I was surprised.
- You would've done it, right? - Yes.
- Judging by what she says, - Yes.
she would do the chores if he leaves her alone.
- I think he rushes things. - He can't wait.
- Does your husband... - He should explain to her.
usually tell you after he decides?
He always tells me after making a decision.
(What?)
(This is completely unexpected.)
Does he make decisions without discussing with you?
Yes. When I came home, there was a new washing machine at home.
And when I came home...
(He bought a new washing machine without telling her.)
I found a robot vacuum cleaner and a dryer.
Also, my husband is a member of a cycling club.
- One day... - Club activities.
- Club activities. - That's always the problem.
- A 2,000-dollar bicycle came home. - Was it delivered?
(Oh, my gosh!)
His wife is very understanding as well.
I think she's...
- She's very understanding. - I think she should sit here.
(He's taken aback.)
Before we moved into the house we're living in now,
he showed me the house and said, "We're going to live here."
That was all.
- Really? - He didn't even discuss with you?
(It's a matter he should've discussed with his wife about.)
So...
(Well... Actually...)
I just said, "So this is where we're going to live now."
She's so funny. "Oh, I see."
- It's because... - She's a nice person.
Once my husband makes up his mind,
he has it done no matter what.
He puts his idea into action...
regardless of my opinion, so opposing him is pointless.
Hang on. Please switch your seats.
It seems to me...
this is a bigger problem than the house chores.
He bought a house without even discussing with her.
Why did you do that?
- You look baffled. - Yes.
How could you not discuss such matters with your wife?
How could you do that?
I... I tend to...
It's true that I tend to act quickly once I made a decision.
I buy things I want without hesitating.
But you should've discussed about the house.
However, my wife has difficulty making choices.
That's a different thing.
- You can at least discuss with her. - You can discuss with her.
She doesn't tell me if she agrees or not.
I think you can't wait until she gives you her answer.
- It takes her a long time. - I think that's true.
It's not that she has difficulty discussing.
You know...
- Difficulty discussing? - He's right.
- Aren't I right? - You're right.
Of course. And you spent 2,000 dollars on your bicycle.
That means you spent your wife's money as well...
- as you two are a married couple. - That's right.
I told my wife when I bought expensive things.
- You just tell her. - "I bought it."
- "I bought it." - Your wife just said...
she didn't know you bought the bike until she saw it at home.
Did he discuss with you?
She looks as if she's saying, "I'm glad I came on this show."
- I'm glad she's here. - Me too.
- I saw her face too. - Right.
I saw him contemplating between products to buy.
- Well... - He didn't discuss with you?
Since you're here,
tell us what your husband did to disappoint you...
like how often he meets his friends.
What I'm upset about is...
When my husband makes plans with his friends,
he texts me, "I'll be home late tonight."
"I'm going to sleep out tonight."
I also want to meet my friends.
I ask him,
"Can I meet my friends today?"
He says, "Okay." I get his approval.
- Then... - "His approval"?
- I... - He's like your boss.
I wish he could stop there,
but he asks if there were any moms like me among my friends.
He told me to be grateful that I can meet them when I have two children.
(You should be thankful that you can see them when you have two kids.)
- He patronizes you. - He patronizes you.
Yes.
Does your husband meet his friends often?
When he meets his friends, he doesn't come home that day.
- What? - He sleeps out?
(It's another shocking twist.)
He plays basketball on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and soccer on weekends...
just as he did before we got married.
He plays soccer on Mondays and Wednesdays too.
He's on a full schedule the whole week.
He comes home after playing sports though.
- When does he sleep out? - He sleeps out...
when he meets his friends.
What do you do with them to sleep out?
The thing is...
- Do you go camping together? - We just drink together.
I drink until late night, and our house is so far.
- So I sleep at a sauna... - Really?
or my friend's house.
She's incredibly understanding.
He just tells her,
but she accepts it and puts up with it.
Exactly. Please explain to us the other thing as well.
She said you patronize her.
- "You should be thankful." - Right.
I think she goes out too often.
- So I... - Does she meet her friends?
- How many times a month? - How often?
Between 2 and 4 times.
- She doesn't go out often. - But you...
You go out to play basketball and soccer.
- She doesn't even sleep out. - You sleep out.
Well, yes.
See? This is so weird.
They should switch their seats.
One of the reasons I decided to come on the show is...
She has to check our children's homework every day,
but she avoids disciplining them.
- Does she not care about education? - Yes.
She never scolds them or yells at them.
I'm worried our children might become rude.
They study at school and go to the academy.
They don't have much time to spend with us at home.
If I told them to sit down and study even at home,
we would have so little time to spend with each other.
So I try to do something they like with them instead.
- She's a good mom. - She has a good philosophy.
- She's a great mom. - Exactly.
- She's doing a great job. - I think so too.
To be honest, I feel like I'm always a bad guy.
- When I go on a business trip, - He's cornered.
it's as if a festival begins at home...
because I'm not home.
They order delivery food and watch TV until late night.
- When you're away? - Yes.
Even when I'm in my room,
my wife and children say,
"Get some rest. We're going to a supermarket."
And then they just leave home.
It's so fun to go shopping with your family, right?
I didn't realize that he felt left out.
He doesn't like shopping at a supermarket.
- I see. - Yes.
He looks tired too,
- so I let him get some rest. - You were considerate of him.
- Yes. - I see.
When he goes on a business trip, you order delivery food...
and do what you like. Do you feel liberated?
Yes.
(I didn't know she thought of me like that.)
Do you and the kids become more cheerful when he's away?
- He gets angry quite often. - I see.
Therefore, when he's home,
I can't do everything as I want.
Let's ask their son. How do you feel when your dad goes on a trip?
- I get excited. - Sorry?
I get excited.
- Do you get excited? - Yes.
- Do you mean that? - Yes.
What about their daughter?
Imagine your dad is going on a business trip.
(Smiling cheerfully)
She's already excited.
- She seems excited. - It's party time.
Children need parents with the personalities and...
perspectives of both of you.
So I believe that the two of you...
are a perfect match in that sense.
If both of you don't care about house chores,
- your house could've been dirtier. - That's right.
So one of you has to lead the way.
It would be nice if you two can accept the differences...
and try to adapt to each other.
You have aged a lot for such a short while.
(Haggard)
It seems to me...
that they didn't have enough conversations.
How about you two tell each other what you want?
I'll continue to do the dishes as I did until now.
Please fold the clothes after I wash and dry them.
It'd be nice if you can help me with house chores for 30 minutes a day.
As our children grow up, we'll have less time to be with them.
I hope we can spend a weekend with our children from time to time.
If you give me some time, I will try to do things...
as you want me to do.
- You will clean the house? - Yes.
Were you very upset because he never discussed with you?
- To be honest, - You can tell us.
- at first, it made me really upset. - Tell him about it too.
- I see. - But I didn't want to stay upset.
He's the one who loves and cares about this family the most.
Since it's the decision made by him...
- You respect his decisions? - Yes.
(Everyone applauds her.)
She deserves an applause.
(I shouldn't have come here.)
That's remarkable.
(Impressed)
I think he's here to brag about his wife.
There is no wife who thinks that way these days.
- Ji Woo. - I think they can resolve it...
through a lot of conversations.
- Thank you. - So Young.
I think they're just different. It's not one of them has a problem.
- They're simply different. - They think differently...
and do things at different paces.
- I don't think it's a worry either. - I see.
- I don't think it's a worry. - Sang Yeol, you also think...
- it's not a worry. - I don't think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
Many of them pushed the button.
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
(Please send us your worries.)
He whispered in my ear before...
He was being cornered at that moment, but he said,
"My daughter is good at dancing idol groups' dances."
(He dotes on his daughter.)
- Can you dance where you are? - Show us.
- Your dad wishes to see you dance. - I'd like to see it too.
Music, please.
(Dancing)
She's good.
(She's good.)
(She dances in her own style.)
My goodness. Look at her.
(This is the joy of my life.)
She's good.
(She's cute.)
- She's so cute. - She's good.
- You're so cute. - Way to go.
That's good.
(No wonder he bragged about her.)
That was great.
(Thank you for your performance.)
- You must be happy. - She's so adorable.
(Good job, my daughter.)
Please show us the result.
(The result)
"My Blood Is Boiling".
Many people... Is it over 100?
He got more votes than I expected.
50 votes? He got 40 votes.
Look at her face.
(He got 40 votes.)
"Honey, Please Stop!" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive a cash prize. Congratulations.
Sang Yeol, how do you feel about being here after a long time?
Once again, I realized that everyone's life isn't so different,
- and the world is still beautiful. - That's right.
Seol Hyun, did coming here make you want to get married soon...
or want to put it off?
I want to get married after some time.
I thought this show could change...
many people's lives.
All five of you, thank you for being here with us.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("Bingle Bangle" by AOA)